How much is too much?

How much is too much?

Very often I have encountered these situations wherein – especially in a relationship – I’ve found myself asking this question, “How much is too much?”

So really, how much is too much? How much of trying is too much trying? How much love is too much love? How much trust is too much trust? How much sex is too much sex?

Seems like a real head-scratcher, this one. But the fact is that especially in todays busy urban lives, the propensity of one partner starting to feel that he / she is getting screwed over, is way too much.

So what makes us reach this “emotional threshold”? Is it paranoia of not feeling “loved” enough? Is it the unearthly realization one morning over coffee that the one person you consider most important counts you after his / her shoeshine?
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Human Needs Psychology advocates that people have different priorities in life and the order in which you are priorities are, shape all your choices and decisions. So how long does it take us mere urban mortals to realize that even though we may try our best to knock down some doors, they would not open till the right combination is keyed in.

I guess it takes the incoherent proclivity of “following ones’ heart” to realize these defunct absolutions.